Boyfriend Behaving Strangely

Dear AL:
My boyfriend has never been REALLY mean to me or anything, but he's really short tempered and prideful at times. He also NVR listens, no matter what I told him. But lately, he's behaving real strangely, he's treating me extremely nice, being really kind and thoughtful, blowing me kisses and stuff like that. It's such a sudden change, is he cheating on me?
-- L, Earth

Dear L:
Usually when someone all of a sudden changes for the better out of the blue, it's because they finally realized how much you mean to them... right after they cheated! I could be wrong, but I'm hardly ever.
Maybe he didn't cheat, so enjoy his sudden change of heart, until he turns back into swellhead you hooked up with!

If you do find out he's cheating, and it's been going on for a long time, drop him like a bad habit! He may never answer the question "Why?"

13 comments:

Tasha said...

Girl, that man done something wrong! Why would he go from being an asshole to kissing your ass? Think girl! THINK!

Goodbye Mes Amis said...

I say dump him. I mean he NVR listens.

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Doris said...

Maybe he didn't do anything wrong, just came to his senses!

Jackie said...

L, promise us that you wont pull a Lorena Bobbit on his pecker! Think about your life!

Kurt said...

Maybe he just wants L to have sex with him and another girl, so he's peppering her up!

Dear AL said...

Tasha, if you're right, I say kick him to the curb with a steel toe boot!

Jessica, maybe she should first find out why he's being so nice. Maybe he's got his seasons mixed up!

Doris, came to his senses after what?

Jackie, great advice!

Kurt, just the sort of thing you would do, right?

ramblings said...

I agree wholeheartidly.

I spelled that wrong didn't I?

Webmiztris said...

oooh! or maybe he starting smoking reefer behind her back. that would do it too!

Sweety said...

Maybe I'm naive, but really, it doesn't have to mean he's cheating. Maybe he realized how much he loves you.. or maybe he'll propose to you in the near future! :)

Buf yeah, if he's cheating. Dump the guy!

Tracie B. said...

once a swellhead, always a swellhead

The Stiltwalker said...

either that or he's softening you up to tell you he gave you some venereal disease...

Rose said...

The signs are there. You don't need Al's advice or ours. Dump him!