Had an affair with my best friend's husband

Dear AL:
I had an affair with my best friend's husband two weeks ago, which I'm very sorry about. The way it happened, my best friend Dawn gave me a call and told me she was sick, and asked if I could go to her husbands hangout to keep an eye on him. I did her this favor, and found him playing pool with his friends at this place. He wasn't doing anything wrong when I found him, but since I drank so much, he talked me into slow dancing, and the next thing I know we're kissing. Somehow he ended up at my place and we had sex!

Since then he calls me almost everyday, asking when he could see me again. This past weekend I stayed at a girlfriends house out of fear he would stop by. And earlier today he called, but I let my answering machine pickup while on speaker. He said he loves me!

Al, how do I get out of this? I want to tell my best friend, but I keep wimping out.
-- In Trouble, Canada

Dear Trouble:
Somehow he ended up at your place to have sex? Don't you hate it when that happens?

Look, stop dragging this out, and tell your best friend! She's gona find out sooner or later, specially if her husband keeps calling you. He will slip up guaranteed, or probably tell your best friend that he loves you. And somehow her fist is gona end up in your face. That happens too you know.

Kw's: adultery, adultry, affair, affairs, cheater, cheating spouse, infidelity, marriage, unfaithful


Cynnie said...

that was not an affair..
that was a drunken mistake ..
Stop avoiding him and tell him that you're going to tell your friend..
do not threaten him that you're telling the friend ..just inform him..
hiding will not make anything better.
you are a fucking skank..

Dear AL said...

Cynnie... OUCH! Maybe you should start an advice column.


Stephanie said...

I don't care how drunk I got, there is NO way I would EVER sleep with my best friend's husband. And seriously, if all it took was a few beers and some slow dancing to get this chick in the sack it probably shows that this wasn't his first rodeo. Either way she needs to tell her friend, because these things have a way of getting out and if she finds out THAT is going to cause some drama.