DearAL:I have been with the same guy for a little over 4 years. We were having a great life together when he got arrested for some bad choices he made before I met him. I wasn't aware of any of this and now my trust in him is shaken. I've been really trying to stay strong and looking at my life. I've made many positive changes and am really taking care of myself. I'm not ready to call it quits, but I don't know how to accept him keeping something so big from me for so many years. We were going to get married in May of next year, and now I'm not sure how long it will be until he's out. He is being charged with multiple felony threes.
--Kyle, Heart Broken in Co
Dear Kyle:
In Colorado, not counting class 1 felonies (murder), Beaves could go to prison anywhere from 1 to 24 years. Do you seriously want to wait for someone who kept this past a secret? Who's to say he wont do it again? It will always be in the back of your mind "Did he seriously go out with the boys to shoot pool, or to shoot someone?" Not that I'm saying he would commit this type of felony.
Here's another positive change you should make, calling it quits. Don't become his alibi for his next serious crime. You might end up doing time. Move on with your life and let him live his.
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hi al.. thought you weren't posting anything new.. then realized [after searching!] that somehow you were deleted off my following list :(
anyway.. wanted ya to know that it was an accident! i'm still lurking! :D
have a great week!!
blessings,
-Tracie
oh that would've been awesome to see! too bad you didn't get the pic!
i'm working on a revamp of our squadron spouses' website. created it over a year ago, and it just needed some renovation..lol still trying to figure out how to add a chat forum, before i can re-launch.
so what sites do you have up your sleeve?? oh, and i may have Gretchen's video ready to add to your one site soon!
No problem, Tracie. Nice to see ya again.
About what I posted on your blog, it would have been great shots of those hot air balloons. We were enroute to the camp grounds, so we didn't have time. Wanted to make sure we got a spot.
My music video blog, I barely update, but it still gets tons of hits and I will be more than happy to feature Gretchen's video.
I can't really say what my sites are about at this time, but as soon as they're off the ground, I'll let you know.
Hey
I suck at blogging now...so you can stalk me :)
my twitter
i_am_aidil
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